You’re probably feeling a mix of emotions right now, and you’ve got a lot of questions on your mind. You might not feel ready for this. That’s completely normal. When facing an unplanned pregnancy, every man asks himself the same question: do I have what it takes? The truth is, there’s no perfect time or guarantee that you’re 100% prepared. But if you’re committed to stepping into this role with courage, you can be the hero your partner needs. The good news is you can choose to be the man you want to be, starting right now.
She needs to know she’s not in this alone and she can count on you. Some guys feel like they don't have a right to be a part of the decision, but that’s far from true. Most women really do want to know how you feel about the pregnancy and the future. In fact, many women say the dad is the biggest influence on their decision. Some women choose abortion mainly because they’re scared of raising a child alone. The reality is your involvement could make all the difference.
Educate yourself about your options. Learn about pregnancy, how abortion works, and what that experience might be like for both of you. Be honest with her about what you’ve learned and what you feel, and really listen to her. Show her you respect her and want to make this decision together.
At Savannah Care Center, we’ve got your back. If you and your partner are facing decisions about parenting, adoption, or abortion, you’ve got to be part of the conversation. Our fatherhood coaches are men who are ready to answer any questions you have and help you become the best dad possible. Sign up for Doctor Dad, the interactive online course that will give you practical, confidence-boosting skills in just 6 easy lessons. It’s self-paced, which means it fits into your busy life. In each lesson, you'll learn things like how to care for a pregnant partner, how to calm a crying baby, the importance of skin-to-skin contact, child nutrition, how to take a temperature, and gun safety.
When you’re ready to take it to the next level, you can sign up for Doctor Dad-Healthy Dad to find out how to progress in your personal goals, your relationships, your finances, and more.
Need financial assistance, help with job hunting, or advice on your legal rights as a father? We’ve got you covered and will connect you with resources to support your success. You can even book a one-on-one coaching session for personalized support. We’ll walk with you through every step, whether it’s guidance, resources, or just someone to talk to. At Savannah Care Center, we’re all about helping you thrive on your journey as a father.
